Maybe your prospective boo was "into politics. Maybe you saw that dick print and shit was looking too small! Either way, we've all run into red flags before beginning a potential relationship — so I asked girls about the worst warning signs they've ever experienced in the dating world and honestly, this shit makes me want to delete Tinder, throw my phone into the sea and then become a nun — and not necessarily in that order! Super cute, super smart.
We were chilling talking and I said something about LGBTQ rights and he was like, "Ew hopefully you're not one of those, because just ew no. We had been speeding and he received a ticket.
He was older than me by about four years, like 26 or 27 at the time. But he proceeded to pull his phone out, sniffle, and the first and only word I heard was: Needless to say the date ended with me throwing hot spaghetti in his lap and leaving to go to a bar down the street. He said when he was in a cab with someone alone, he would think of all the ways he could kill that person without anyone finding out.
I took my friend with me, 'cause there was a bunch of us. Anyway, fast forward half an hour and I see my date going into his bedroom with my friend and they're gone for like 45 minutes. He ghosts me and adds my friend on Facebook the next day. I bumped into him on the train days later and called him an asshole, to which he responded "Yeah, I know.
He was the real deal and I seriously liked him. Until one day when we were driving in his car, looking for the dry cleaning place his mom asked him to stop by and pick up clothes from. For some reason we had a hard time finding it, which resulted in him saying a bunch of cuss words and throwing his phone in the car, breaking it. I immediately broke up with him that week.
I don't need that kind of rage anger in my life! Nothing sexual or romantic. We chatted a few times a week and it was all super casual.
One day he asked me to meet him, and I said I couldn't because I was busy or whatever, and he then replied saying he feels he can't live without me and he would kill himself if I ever left him! We'd probably been talking about 3 weeks?
It's safe to say I blocked him on any and all social media and got the hell out of there before it was too late. Eventually, I was forced to cut him out of my life because he would get absolutely shit-faced every time I so much as talked about having interest in someone else. I was always having to deal with a drunken message like, "I love you, we're meant to be together… but I'm a total garbage person… you don't want me… but I love you we're soulmates… but I'm dirt and I'm not worthy of you…please be my girlfriend?
Five years later and I'm still fucking bitter about the whole thing and angry for not seeing the red flags sooner. Once a guy showed me a hole he punched in his dry wall… And somehow, this has happened to like, a lot of people I know?!