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Dating and engagement customs in egypt

Dating and engagement customs in egypt

Zara Dance My mobile phone rings. I hesitate to answer as they usually only send messages on the internet or short missed calls to say they are thinking of me — Calls are too expensive. The call ends… but then it starts again. Hesitantly, I answered — either this is going to be very, very, bad news or very, very, good news. You must come to Egypt! Asmaat is my only girl cousin who is in my age range and I lived with her when I was in Egypt as a child.

We are like sisters. Can you get here? Engagement parties in Egypt are as big as the actual weddings. The woman is called the bride and the man is the groom. An Egyptian engagement party is where you announce to the world that you are going to get married so it is ok if you are seen together so you have permission to go on dates.

It is also where the dowry of gold is given from the man to the woman. This dowry is in Egypt called a Shebka. So I cancel a few things and book an exceptionally expensive last minute ticket to Egypt — for what will be 4 of the most special days of my life.

To be the bridesmaid was an honour. Usually, due to cost and the fact that it is an imported tradition from the west, Egyptian brides only have one bridesmaid — basically another girl who can stay with her; organise things with her and ensure she is safe and never left alone with the groom — yes even though they are engaged at no point are they allowed to be left alone together until they are married!

The only things that had been organised when I arrived were the location, the cake and the band. My cousin, Asmaat, had decided to use a small open top function room 5 mins down the road from us near Kobri Abass. But that was it! Four days and we had to organise the dress, the soft drinks, the hair, the makeup, the shoes, the car, the flowers …..

I knew this was going to be exciting. Well, first was the dress! We head to Helwan, the end of the tube line, and actually where her groom lives. We push through the busy market, fighting through the people, stalls of fruit, clothes and electrical goods and at last we slip down a side street and suddenly from the dirty, noisy streets we have somehow been transported into a calm, wonderland of wedding dress shops!

Our hunt begins — in each shop we enter we ask for her size and start from there. Some truly hideous ones are pulled out in some of the craziest sickly colours imaginable but also some truly beautiful ones too. It was beautiful with intricate beading and we had been given the ok by her brother, who had tagged along with us for moral support and also to ensure we picked nothing too revealing! We headed back to the shop to hire the dress.

All the dresses on show are for hire. We still had on our list leggings and a netted leotard to find in the same colour that she can wear underneath the dress for a modest look. We now had all the gold. Over the next few days we were on the phone organising various video people and booking our photo session. All whilst sifting the streets and local markets for leotards in the right shade of purple as well as head scarves to match the dress as well as shoes, accessories and everything else!

Each evening we would visit a beautician in Sayyeda Zeinab who prepared us for the big day by stringing our faces, putting us in facemasks, soaking our hands and pushing back our cuticles. Though totally, fun they were far from gentle! All the time we were there we would discuss her dreams, if she was happy with the guy she was marrying - I had yet to meet him. Mohummed, her groom, used to be a neighbour many years back and their mothers had recently bumped into each other and realised that both their children were single and looking to get married so they met a few times, in the presence of family, agreed and now were getting engaged.

She explains how excited she is; how lovely he is; she had barely been off the phone to him every night before bed since I got there — She seems very happy and I am not worried. She starts with the plain, purple leotard. It was needed for the most important job — the bringing out of the GOLD!!

I get the tray and once again out comes the glue gun! Whilst this is going on we have the music playing loud from the TV. All of us are dancing, singing and zaggareeting! This is bellydance from the source; in its natural habitat, celebrating! You could even say in the celebration of Asmaat growing up, becoming a woman. She is a little conscious about her dance skills as everyone will be judging her moves!

Way into the early hours and two bags of potpourri later, the tray is ready and we are all danced out. The sisterhood and love of all of us together that night was so beautiful — we finally went to bed happy, excited and joyous. The day of the wedding: There is no need to rush.

They never start before sunset as the last prayers must be said before the party starts. We finally get up and eat our tamaya falafel and foul madams for breakfast. I love her so much and in a way though happy for her I am sad and scared. She is growing up and though the marriage is still far away she will soon need to move away from home; take on her responsibilities as a wife and even as a mother.

We are there with about 3 other girls, also there with their bridesmaids and mothers. We wait in line at each stage for Assmat to have face masks, her nails painted — her hair washed and styled, her make-up done and finally her hijab put on in a beautiful manner by a professional hijab stylist!

He uses around 5 hijabs and a whole box of pins! It takes nearly an hour for this. My scarf is also done in a less elaborate way. Before I know it, it is approaching 8pm and we start to get her into her dress. She looks truly stunning - So beautiful - So adult!

We are ready …. The other brides have gone. All have been picked up by their grooms and we are waiting. She calls her groom — they are stuck in traffic on the way from Helwan! We start dancing with the beauticians. Over the last few days we have made friends with them all. The groom finally arrives and comes upstairs with her bouquet and collects her.

Some busking musicians start playing and singing folkloric wedding songs. They circle the beauty shops on Friday nights knowing that there will be brides in ALL of them. The music plays; we zaggaret and again we belly dance as she gets into the car and her brother slips the buskers some money.

In the car the singing continues we wiggle in our seats and everyone is clapping — even the driver - YES the driver! We play racing games with the other cars of family members all of us laughing and screaming. We arrive at the photographers as the photos are done before the party. There is a queue of 4 or 5 other brides. As I said, Friday night is a bride factory in Egypt. Weddings and engagements are everywhere! We finally get to take the photos with all the family who came in the car. And then the photographer asks the family to leave so he can do some sensual photos with just the bride and groom.

We calm him down. Once they have had their photos taken we finally make our way to the venue. Her Zaffa begins — this is the bridal parade. At engagements this is usually just a band, whereas the actual wedding, performers such as a tanoura or if you are lucky and rich bellydancers perform. The band starts to play traditional songs.

There is a mizmar player and loads of drummers. I dance with Asmaat. This is her moment to shine. Then our cousin, Sharif, grabs the riq and takes over from the singer. He leads the traditional songs singing them straight at Asmaat from his heart.

At that point my other cousin takes off his jacket and grabs the tabla and leads the band. This goe on for some time. Everyone looses themselves in connection with the music, what it is saying and relating to it. The men especially go crazy.

The bride and groom feed each other a chocolate from tray. Then, in the blink of an eye, all the rest of the chocolates, although glued in place, are gone from the tray — grabbed crazily by children and adults alike! Soon after, the cake is brought out and the bride and groom cut it whilst dancing with the knife.

A slice of cake is rationed out with one bottle of fizzy drink to each guest. Traditionally, you only ever get cake and a fizzy drink at Shaabi weddings and engagements. After this the dancing gets more and more intense.

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Dating and engagement customs in egypt

Zara Dance My mobile phone rings. I hesitate to answer as they usually only send messages on the internet or short missed calls to say they are thinking of me — Calls are too expensive. The call ends… but then it starts again. Hesitantly, I answered — either this is going to be very, very, bad news or very, very, good news. You must come to Egypt!

Asmaat is my only girl cousin who is in my age range and I lived with her when I was in Egypt as a child. We are like sisters. Can you get here? Engagement parties in Egypt are as big as the actual weddings. The woman is called the bride and the man is the groom. An Egyptian engagement party is where you announce to the world that you are going to get married so it is ok if you are seen together so you have permission to go on dates.

It is also where the dowry of gold is given from the man to the woman. This dowry is in Egypt called a Shebka. So I cancel a few things and book an exceptionally expensive last minute ticket to Egypt — for what will be 4 of the most special days of my life.

To be the bridesmaid was an honour. Usually, due to cost and the fact that it is an imported tradition from the west, Egyptian brides only have one bridesmaid — basically another girl who can stay with her; organise things with her and ensure she is safe and never left alone with the groom — yes even though they are engaged at no point are they allowed to be left alone together until they are married!

The only things that had been organised when I arrived were the location, the cake and the band. My cousin, Asmaat, had decided to use a small open top function room 5 mins down the road from us near Kobri Abass. But that was it! Four days and we had to organise the dress, the soft drinks, the hair, the makeup, the shoes, the car, the flowers ….. I knew this was going to be exciting. Well, first was the dress! We head to Helwan, the end of the tube line, and actually where her groom lives.

We push through the busy market, fighting through the people, stalls of fruit, clothes and electrical goods and at last we slip down a side street and suddenly from the dirty, noisy streets we have somehow been transported into a calm, wonderland of wedding dress shops! Our hunt begins — in each shop we enter we ask for her size and start from there.

Some truly hideous ones are pulled out in some of the craziest sickly colours imaginable but also some truly beautiful ones too. It was beautiful with intricate beading and we had been given the ok by her brother, who had tagged along with us for moral support and also to ensure we picked nothing too revealing! We headed back to the shop to hire the dress.

All the dresses on show are for hire. We still had on our list leggings and a netted leotard to find in the same colour that she can wear underneath the dress for a modest look. We now had all the gold. Over the next few days we were on the phone organising various video people and booking our photo session. All whilst sifting the streets and local markets for leotards in the right shade of purple as well as head scarves to match the dress as well as shoes, accessories and everything else!

Each evening we would visit a beautician in Sayyeda Zeinab who prepared us for the big day by stringing our faces, putting us in facemasks, soaking our hands and pushing back our cuticles. Though totally, fun they were far from gentle! All the time we were there we would discuss her dreams, if she was happy with the guy she was marrying - I had yet to meet him. Mohummed, her groom, used to be a neighbour many years back and their mothers had recently bumped into each other and realised that both their children were single and looking to get married so they met a few times, in the presence of family, agreed and now were getting engaged.

She explains how excited she is; how lovely he is; she had barely been off the phone to him every night before bed since I got there — She seems very happy and I am not worried.

She starts with the plain, purple leotard. It was needed for the most important job — the bringing out of the GOLD!! I get the tray and once again out comes the glue gun! Whilst this is going on we have the music playing loud from the TV. All of us are dancing, singing and zaggareeting! This is bellydance from the source; in its natural habitat, celebrating! You could even say in the celebration of Asmaat growing up, becoming a woman. She is a little conscious about her dance skills as everyone will be judging her moves!

Way into the early hours and two bags of potpourri later, the tray is ready and we are all danced out. The sisterhood and love of all of us together that night was so beautiful — we finally went to bed happy, excited and joyous. The day of the wedding: There is no need to rush. They never start before sunset as the last prayers must be said before the party starts. We finally get up and eat our tamaya falafel and foul madams for breakfast.

I love her so much and in a way though happy for her I am sad and scared. She is growing up and though the marriage is still far away she will soon need to move away from home; take on her responsibilities as a wife and even as a mother. We are there with about 3 other girls, also there with their bridesmaids and mothers. We wait in line at each stage for Assmat to have face masks, her nails painted — her hair washed and styled, her make-up done and finally her hijab put on in a beautiful manner by a professional hijab stylist!

He uses around 5 hijabs and a whole box of pins! It takes nearly an hour for this. My scarf is also done in a less elaborate way. Before I know it, it is approaching 8pm and we start to get her into her dress. She looks truly stunning - So beautiful - So adult! We are ready …. The other brides have gone. All have been picked up by their grooms and we are waiting. She calls her groom — they are stuck in traffic on the way from Helwan!

We start dancing with the beauticians. Over the last few days we have made friends with them all. The groom finally arrives and comes upstairs with her bouquet and collects her. Some busking musicians start playing and singing folkloric wedding songs. They circle the beauty shops on Friday nights knowing that there will be brides in ALL of them. The music plays; we zaggaret and again we belly dance as she gets into the car and her brother slips the buskers some money.

In the car the singing continues we wiggle in our seats and everyone is clapping — even the driver - YES the driver! We play racing games with the other cars of family members all of us laughing and screaming.

We arrive at the photographers as the photos are done before the party. There is a queue of 4 or 5 other brides. As I said, Friday night is a bride factory in Egypt. Weddings and engagements are everywhere! We finally get to take the photos with all the family who came in the car. And then the photographer asks the family to leave so he can do some sensual photos with just the bride and groom. We calm him down. Once they have had their photos taken we finally make our way to the venue.

Her Zaffa begins — this is the bridal parade. At engagements this is usually just a band, whereas the actual wedding, performers such as a tanoura or if you are lucky and rich bellydancers perform.

The band starts to play traditional songs. There is a mizmar player and loads of drummers. I dance with Asmaat. This is her moment to shine. Then our cousin, Sharif, grabs the riq and takes over from the singer. He leads the traditional songs singing them straight at Asmaat from his heart.

At that point my other cousin takes off his jacket and grabs the tabla and leads the band. This goe on for some time. Everyone looses themselves in connection with the music, what it is saying and relating to it.

The men especially go crazy. The bride and groom feed each other a chocolate from tray. Then, in the blink of an eye, all the rest of the chocolates, although glued in place, are gone from the tray — grabbed crazily by children and adults alike!

Soon after, the cake is brought out and the bride and groom cut it whilst dancing with the knife. A slice of cake is rationed out with one bottle of fizzy drink to each guest. Traditionally, you only ever get cake and a fizzy drink at Shaabi weddings and engagements. After this the dancing gets more and more intense.

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  1. Zara Dance My mobile phone rings. We are there with about 3 other girls, also there with their bridesmaids and mothers.

  2. If the couple is retiring to a bridal suite, they will be led by the wedding party, who toss wheat in the air, which is a symbol of fertility in Egypt.

  3. The traditional Egyptian singing and dancing are crucial to the event, no matter how modern you are in the preparation.

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