The Sex Files While informed decisions regarding sex are extremely important , we also think that sex should be fun. So, whether you want to switch things up with a long-term partner or are just adventurous by nature, here are our top 25 ways to spice up your sex life tonight.
Get out of bed. A change of scenery is one of the simplest ways to keep a sense of novelty in your sex life. Public indecency aside, some popular favorites include on a couch, desk, armless chair, or testing your balance against a wall.
But be mindful of roommates, please! Focus on making eye contact with your partner in or out of bed. Get a new point of view. Do the deed in front of a mirror. Watching yourselves in action is a surefire turn-on, without risking a sex tape being posted online. Keep your clothes on. Try only removing key pieces of clothing. Unzip his fly instead of removing his pants, or push your underwear to the side instead of removing it.
It may seem silly to think about, but that kind of need-you-now urgency can make your session seriously hot. Play show and tell. This one requires a little restraint from your partner. Blindfold your partner before performing oral sex, using an actual blindfold or a discarded piece of clothing.
Saved by the bell. Though that may seem like a long time, letting the anticipation build will only improve your experience.
If you have a significant history with your partner, take turns asking one another questions about your time together. Give sex dice a roll. Together, list your 6 favorite sex acts for one die, and decide who gives and who receives on odds and evens for the other. Take turn rolling the dice and enjoying your favorite moves. Find your alter ego. If you tend to wear soft pastels, try wearing black lace and sky-high heels. Experiment with your grooming.
Changing the appearance of your pubic area not only adds new visual appeal, but can create different sensations as well. Make a sex playlist. Include different genres, tempos, and rhythms. Try to match your pace and rhythm with that of each new song. Send a sexy message. Send suggestive messages to each other throughout the day.
Be as vague or explicit as you want. Keeping your thoughts in the gutter all day will definitely pay off at night. Or a sexy massage. Massages can be both relaxing and sexy. Get soothing-scented massage oil and take turns massaging one another. If you are using condoms which we hope you are! Try a new position every time. Many couples get into certain habits in the bedroom because they know what makes their partner happy.
While this definitely has it perks, trying new things is a great way to find new things that you might like. If you and your partner usually kick off your mornings with a bang pun definitely intended , try to hold off a bit longer. Ever had a crush on your teacher? Well, now you can act on it — legally!
Role-playing is a safe, fun way for you and your partner to act out your wildest fantasies. The sky is the limit. As long as both you and your partner are comfortable, role-playing can provide hours of entertainment. Break out the handcuffs. Remember to agree on a safeword: Bondage can also tie in — no pun intended — quite nicely with Buy a present for two. Pick your favorite of the three to wear for the special occasion.
Good enough to eat. Play a little game with chocolate, whipped cream, honey, or any other of your favorite flavors. Either way, challenging yourself and your partner to silent sex can be even more exciting than the full-volume version. Have a movie night! A dirty movie night, that is. Watching an explicit film can get you both in the mood and give you some great new ideas to try on your own! Dim the lights and make your own XXX rated movie.
Attend Sex Toy Bingo. Come alone and win a prize for yourself or bring your partner. We know that reading this blog has made you eager to get to work, but please make sure you have the consent of your partner before trying anything new.