Next 15 year old dating a 21 year old? Please read below before answering. I have been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for over a year, his name is Jake and he's studying at university. I met him in a supermarket where he works on a temporary basis and i really fancied him.
I approached him, asking where something was and it leaded to us We found we have a lot in common, I don't see what's wrong with our relationship because i feel we connect really well. He says that i'm really mature mentally for my age and intelligent too, i like the fact we can have real and relaxed conversations and that i can trust him with anything, he really cares about my problems.
We have the same tastes in music he took me to a concert once , t. He is very knowledgeable and he's taught me all about the stars and stuff. He does stuff to do with Physics in University We often go out to the park to walk his family's dog, a bichon frise called Maisie or have a picnic or watch a film. He is really kind and sweet, he's not like any guy i've ever met before. We kiss and make out a lot but we've never done anything more than that, he's never pressured me into doing anything i don't want to do and he isn't one of those guys who just wants sex he doesn't really have a high libido.
He treats me like a princess- on Valentines Day he surprised me, he was standing outside my window to serenade me with a guitar, after this he came inside and we watched a film where we ate chocolates and cuddled on the sofa, then we went out into the garden and watched the stars. He also bought me an engraved necklace for my birthday which said "I love you. I told him i loved him back. He says he's prepared to wait for sex until i'm ready, i feel ready now but i don't want to get him in trouble with the law so i've decided to wait until my 16th birthday when it will be legal in the U.
He has only had sex once before, a year and a half ago with a 19 year old who was a virgin like him also and who didn't take drugs, so he hasn't got any STIs. He tells me he regrets it because they rushed in too soon, so it was really awkward because neither of them knew what they were doing.
He says i'm really kind, sweet and even more mature mentally that some women his age. He had flirted with women his age before, but he tells me you can't help who you fall for and he fell for me. I have a job delivering papers, so i've bought him gifts before and often payed for our dates. He tells me i've been really supportive throughout a difficult time, he lost his mother a month ago due to cancer so i'm helping him to raise awareness and funds.
I've met his friends before and they are all really nice and friendly, we can hang out together and have a laugh, sometimes ordering a meal together. He has drank alcohol in front of me before but he doesn't like getting drunk so he limits the amount he consumes. He's never tried to make me try alcohol before and he doesn't smoke or take drugs.
He shares a flat with his friend who is really funny and his girlfriend is really easy to get along with too. I've met my boyfriends family before and they are all really kind and welcoming, his sister and i are great friends. My older sister who's 17 says he's too old for me but i disagree, we're not doing anything wrong, we've never broken the law. What do you guys think of our relationship?