Is it possible to change your stars? Win over the unattainable? Is it possible to "date up" or win the heart of someone who may not be in the market to be won over? A recent study published by Psychological Science gives hopeless romantics a glimmer of faith that it can be done. Do you want to know the secret? That's the secret sauce for turning up the heat with a person of interest. The study also detailed more about the influence attractiveness has on relationship satisfaction.
Your first instinct might be to shut down mentally and emotionally and down your drink as quickly as possible so you can get out of there. Slow down and give it a little time. Things such as making someone laugh, the ability to have a great conversation and having common interests can help perceptions of people change over time. Are you ready to get out there and meet your match?
Let the matchmakers at It's Just Lunch Vancouver help you find your match! Get started today by calling us at or visit http: Valentine's Day is what YOU make of it. It's not reserved only for couples. The best gift is to treat yourself with kindness and focus on what makes you a hot ticket -- and not what you may be lacking in the romance department.
Ask That Special Someone Out People get wrapped up in what other people think and that accepting a Valentine's Day invite day of comes off as desperate.
The truth of it is, if you're interested in someone -- ask them. You will be no worse off than you are at this current moment. Need a bit more encourangement? The majority of people surveyed by It's Just Lunch said they would gladly accept a first day invite on Feb.
Step up and ask already. Try a new recipe. Make it a formal dress up affair. This doesn't have to be specifically for your latest crush or first date. Invite your best friend over, the next door neighbor or your grandmother. But doing something YOU want to do, Feb. Live in the Moment. If you are in a relationship, it is often easy to focus on the gifts of this special day.
The cards, flowers and chocolate can say "Hey, you're special" but in all honesty they take away from the sentiment when every grocery store, and Shoppers Mart aisles are filled with them. Looking for something out of the box? Think about a unique experience. An impromtu dance in the parking lot as you are saying goodnight. A frame "selfie" of the two of you on your first date.
Go beyond the card aisle for those you love - crush or best friend. Go out and have fun. Half the people out that night are more than likely to be single too. And the more attractive you come off as, the more likely you are to bump into someone who can be your sweet Valentine next year.