The list below offers ten simple tips, that if followed, will almost certainly enhance your chances of being liked by a girl.
Also, take care of your teeth and hair. These things matter to girls. A job is important because it is important to have money in order to survive in our world. As far as adding self-value, I doubt it. If you seek self-value from someone, thing, or activity, you will not find it.
Working in a good environment, having enough free time to enjoy his private life and liking what he does are some of these characteristics. When you have a job, you can at least say you are trying to make things better for yourself. Even starting your own business is a good idea most Jews do. Women value , observent and watch for that. Anything that allows you to contribute to society and help the economy get back in better shape.
If you have money, or have a business that eventually allows others to have jobs, can make things much easier for everyone else, better. If you are able to go out and earn your money, you will feel better about yourself and you will be helping to solve the problem as opposed to making things worse in North America for instance here in Canada. Learn to converse well. So, how do you learn?
Jewish girls seem to respond better to guys that appear calm and relaxed, especially when around them. They like it when guys appear to be in control, rather than shaking due to insecurity. So, you need to figure out how to be around Jewish girls more; like say, at work, in social settings, wherever the girls are, go be there. But once again, difficult is not the same as impossible. People can learn to be more charming.
The caveat though, is that you have to actually do things to improve. Think about yourself a moment. What sort of person are you? Do you feel that others see you as you see yourself? Quite often people wind up meandering through their life giving little thought to the image they project to others. So, give it some thought. And come to think of it, even if you are a big strong good looking guy, you might want to work on your interests as well or you might have trouble holding on to that Jewish girl.
If you want a Jewish girl to like you, you have to give her something to work with. Look at the world around you, find something that interests you, and get into it. And then, do it again and again till you find you have a variety of interests.
While girls may not be into the things you find you like, they will be interested in you for having some depth. Jewish girls like guys that make them laugh. Whatever it is, make it a part of your life, so that it will come naturally when you want to share a laugh with someone. Social etiquette encompasses an enormous range of verbal and behavioral skills that when brought together as a whole, form the basis for how others see you.
In other words, if neither dominates the conversation. People that do so are considered bores, and girls generally get tired and walk away. Another example is learning what sorts of jokes or topics of conversation are appropriate. Finally, there are literally hundreds of other little societal niceties that you may or may not have learned; like not belching, farting or swearing around girls.
Or picking your nose. Or pretty much anything most would consider crude or disgusting. All Jewish girls like gifts. But it has to be done right or it will drive them away. And then, if you want to give a gift, make it something simple and sweet, not something extravagant or ridiculously out of proportion to the bounds of your relationship.
Finally, if you want Jewish girls to like you, become more bold. Work on any shyness. In short, suck it up and get out there and present yourself to the world. These ten tips on how to get a Jewishg girl to like you can be used by pretty much any guy that is currently having trouble meeting girls at the synagogue activities or Jewish events, getting to know them and vice-versa, and of course getting them to like you. If this is you, I hope these tips have helped.