No, that is it. I tell her that it is about getting laid, keep getting it or in order to keep the woman off the back so he can watch TV and play games without too much nagging. Yes, and I am overdoing it, it is, as said, a generalization. But it is also, for the most part, true. March 26, at Some men like science programs instead of sports, some like kinky, and others only want the missionary.
Some like big boonkers, others like small ones. Falling in love has many different things to it. Sex is important, but not the only thing, besides it can be taught or adjusted to fit a couple. I would say age is important here. Younger males want that unattainable hottie, the experienced man look at the girl standing next to the hottest woman.
We can sleep with the hottie, but probably not like it. In either case we would not marry her though. It can be a smell, a certain look, big breasts, a ponytail, and no matching socks, whatever. Although I would argue that females are more shallow and more about status then men are, in this final selection process we are the same. I also have a tip. Great flick that is about this exact topic. March 27, at You dont have to be a good cook or love sports to get a swedish guy. A swedish guy that expects a woman to do household chores by herself is considered a pig.
For example I royally suck at cooking, If I had a girl that would be good at cooking and also enjoy cooking and dont mind doing it.
Then I would do the dishes AND clean up in the kitchen afterwards. No way in hell would I let her dish her own plate or even remove it from the table, if she cooks then after the meal she is well within her rights to just leave the table after dinner and watch TV or whatever while I clean up.
If I had to take a wild guess, what you are describing might be a seductive look in those girls eyes, perhaps a certain wild side to them aswell. I dont mean that being a good cook and stuff like that is a bad thing, its a great thing to be honest.
But you are more than that and you should never think of being able to cook or liking sports as a quality that will get you a swedish guy because he would want you for your personality that is beyond that stuff. March 28, at I notice that same attitude towards household chores in the swede I know and it is a great thing to me because I am not a good cook either, I like it but just dont have much to practice. Im thinking really seriously in taking some cooking classes and be able to cook a very nice meal for him one day.
That is my latin blood speaking I suppose because we do things like these for our man not because we have to but because we want to please him and we feel good doing it, although my friend thinks we do it as an obligation and doesnt believe that we take pleasure in doing those type of things. It seems that alcohol helps Swede to break the ice, get in touch and have sex definitely.. When we go clubbing and we flirt, we take advantage on the music that it really supports you to go beyond a simple eyes contact: March 29, at It is absolutley great that you want to make your man happy with good food and stuff like that.
But I just want you to know that as a woman, a man, no matter where he is from. Should appreciate you and love you for who you are, and not how good a cook you are. You must also make sure that the man you have chosen is the man that YOU dream of. I mean you are a latina, by that fact alone, swedish men should be lining up around the block just to ask you out, so whenever you see a swedish man or any man for that matter.
Because beleive me, I am a man, and I dont know any man at all, not even any of my closest friends. Who would deserve a woman like you. Hell I wouldt even recomend them to any woman on this blog, almost every woman here on this blog that has been asking questions.
Seems to be the kind of girl that you simply DONT let go. I mean really making an effort to make the best relationship, not only for yourself but also to the man that you have chosen or want to meet, is the kind of woman that only a few seem to have gotten a hold of. Puntino Well what we do in sweden really depends on what kinds of clubs you are going to. But one thing that Ive learned is that we never lose this childish drinking game mentality.
Jokes are often made about those who cant hold their liquor. Our nightlife is depending on drinking. As for the music and dancing, well we most likely look like a bunch of idiots when dancing.
Atleast compared to any foreigner who comes from a country where dancing is more important than alcohol. Also, here it is more common to exchange phone numbers after hookingup.
It might be a bit of an embarrassament that we cant dance worth crap, atleast most of us. Id like to pick up some jeans from italy, but I really feel that a shirt would stand out more than a pair of jeans. The cooking and not clean up afterwards confirms it in my book. But I am sure that you will find him. I mean the best girls are already always taken, those who arent, just have yet to taken lol. And I love those tight jeans on my guy, I think it makes him look really hot.
He carries it off really well too. And totally adorable and super cute to boot. I have never felt so loved or so respected. When we first met, we did get off to a bit of wrong footing but it was quickly resolved as it was just a misunderstanding. It all worked out in the end.
Oh and maybe not so typical for a swede but he was very gentlemanly, and he paid on our first date out too. I do hope we work out!! Anyways keep those blog posts coming. Just to clarify — I never ever dress in a provocative way, in fact, most of the times it happens, im usually just on my way to work im an interpreter Latina girl says: March 30, at And I will listen to you and make sure that he is the man I dream of.
Something that he would like as a friend and different ones that he would like later maybe as a boyfriend. Do I have to flat out ask? April 2, at And about that guy, damn, I am glad to hear you are not seeing that bastard anymore.
As for that swede, well he is not he only swede in the world so youll find another hehe. You should definatley enjoy your freedom, I would recomend a spa, getting youself spoiled, buying some new clothes.
Get a new haircut or just getting your hair done in general. And after a month or so, starting to focus on getting a serious guy. Latina Girl Depends on how you want it to sound.
There are many ways to say it, it could sound very seductive, or just for fun. Nicknames I am not good at, atleast not friendly ones that would work untill a real relationship has started. I wish you and boyfriend happiness and love. Moonlight — Good you got rid of that jerk. And now get rid of that Swedish jerk.
How is that fun? Puntino — Alcohol is such a heavy factor in the nightlife in Sweden. D diet in progress now, my lines are completely ruined by all the junk food i destroyed during that stressful relationship, then new clothes will follow yippeeeee: Not sure about the sleeping around bit: Errrrm — not interesting. Someone actually said to me once that men are like public toilets, because there are 3 types of them — 1.
Its just something that Britain made of me: April 4, at I think that would be great but i have been talking to some Swedes on msn and they seem normal to me! Anyone fill me in please? April 6, at Well, yes I am. Moving around a lot though, trying to stay away from horrible Sweden. It is very hard to find good men out on the British Isles. Having lived in Glasgow as well as in the London area I sometimes find it hard to understand how the British species survives…: